The Enchanted Self           — by Dr. Barbara Becker Holstein

Bullying 

I heard on ABC Now News today that bullying can increase the risk of depression and even suicide.  These are serious findings.

Every day, in every way possible we need to help kids, teens and tweens to not be bullied.  We also need to help the bully so he or she doesn't have the rage or hurt inside prompting them to bully others.  We have a big task but we can do it.

Some pointers:

1.  In your family life don't make fun of each other or bully one another.  Remember that kids model what they see!

2.  If your child talks about a bully in school or the neighborhood LISTEN and stay alert.  If you see any changes in your child, even small ones, like leaving the dinner table early, talk to her and see what is going on.

3.  Remember you are the grown-up and take responsibility if necessary.  If you think you had better speak to a teacher, guidance counselor or principal about your child getting bullied, or your child showing some traits of being a bully, do it!

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