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Even the most positive people have “off” days when everything seems to be going wrong.  I had one recently where a bunch of little stuff swept over me one after the other.  No one thing in and of itself was enough to “get my goat” as they say, but discovering my cat had projectile vomited all over the side of the couch and finding a hoard of mating aphids on the cut sunflowers on my dining room table seemed to be the final straw!  No matter how positive I try to see things, I wasn’t seeing anything good at that moment.

 

So I stopped.  I closed my eyes.  I took several deep breaths…

 

And I asked God to help me change what I could and let go of the rest. 

Sometimes that’s all we can do. 

 

I looked around and realized the most important thing I needed to change was to stop neglecting my own self care.  It was already after 5pm and the only thing I’d drank all day was one glass of water with breakfast.  No wonder I felt so lousy!  Dehydration will drain you, make your muscles ache, and your head hurt.  It also detracts from one’s ability to think clearly.

 

After getting a glass of water, I then realized I could change my priorities.  There was stuff that simply would have to wait until tomorrow.

 

And I could change my attitude.

 

Sometimes changing our attitude is easier said than done, but it is our responsibility to make this inward change and allow it to express outwardly.  When we commit to changing our attitude for the better, it truly can change the world around us.

 

So I put on some happy and soothing music and decided to tackle the one remaining job on my to-do list which was FUN, namely decorating with some pumpkins and squash!  And then I called it quits.

 

A funny thing happened… by the time my husband got home, I was in a good mood!  I still felt tired, but I wasn’t so overwhelmed and stressed.  And I wasn’t as completely exhausted as before so things didn’t seem quite as bad as they originally did.

 

There were still several things I wished had been different that day but I didn’t have any control over them.  Recognizing I couldn’t do anything about them, I was able to let go of worrying about them.  I simply prayed for God to take care of them.  And when I found my mind starting to fuss, I repeated one of my favorite mantras / affirmations…

 

“It’s OK, God’s working on it for me.”


And He was. 


The next morning I woke up and things just seem to fall into place.  I LOVE IT when that happens! 

 

Instead of feeling stressed, I knew it would all work out.  And I experienced the first peaceful and serene day I’ve had in a while.  It felt great and I even took time to take care of me and say a prayer of thanks to the Big Guy for helping me out.

 

Sometimes all we need is some self care, a helpful prayer, and the choice to let go of worry and control.  So take care of YOU and have a truly great day! 

(And if it’s not, don’t worry.  It’ll be OK.  God’s working on it for you!)


Peace, Love, Happiness, Health, Prosperity


Jeanette
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Sir Froggie's Positive News Network:  Thursday, October 26th, 2006
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1.      (Fill in the blanks.) Today, I desire and experience…

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I also affirm the following positive reality:

“There is an abundance of Love in my life.
I generate love for my Self merely by placing my hand on my heart and sending my Self Love.
I also call on my angels and Creator and receive their infinite supply of Love.
I am
Loved deeply, wholly, collectively and unconditionally.”

JMP


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2.      “Angels encourage everyone in the right direction...up.”

    © Your Daily Angels Wisdom




3.      The Enchanted Self     — by Dr. Barbara Becker Holstein

A NOTE From Guest Author, Bernice Becker:

Dear Friends,

I thought you might enjoy a very short story I wrote for my writing class. It came to my mind recently, as my friend Betty who is mentioned in the story, recently lost her husband of over sixty years. I have been in touch with her and we found ourselves reminiscing. I mentioned to her that I had written a story about our dating days. She was very delighted. I hope that you are too! Here it is: 

A Dark and Stormy Night
by Bernice Becker

Betty and I were best friends. We did everything together--even double-dating. Tonight our dates were not only interesting and intelligent but were skilled dancers. Emerson, Betty’s date, was the sophisticated intellectual type. Edward was more down to earth and likeable, with a sense of humor, “my type.”

I slipped on my new dress purchased for the occasion. It fit well and was lovely. I told myself that it was worth the $7.95 I had spent.

I walked to Betty’s house where the fellows would be picking us up. I noticed the blue black wondrous sky with the pearly white moon and glittering stars that smiled down on me.

Betty and I were in high spirits in anticipation of a romantic evening as we greeted each other with compliments. She ‘loved’ my dress. I ‘loved’ her latest hairdo.

The two fellows arrived. They were stylish and handsome.

My heart quickened a beat as Edward helped me with my coat and as he opened the car door for me to get inside the back.

Betty sat in front with Emerson as it was his car.

We chatted as we moved slowly along Beacon Street. So many cars were on their way to Downtown Boston. I could see beautifully dressed people in other cars, probably also going dancing. The lampposts were glistening. I felt comfortable and happy.

Suddenly I heard angry voices, how could things change that quickly? I also noticed that the sky had become dark and the stars were now hidden by storm clouds.

Betty and her date were fighting. I thought Betty was wrong to let herself get involved on a Saturday night date in a squabble. Worst of all, I didn’t want my night ruined. “Don’t spoil our plans,” I thought to myself.

Suddenly, Emerson stopped the car at a safe spot and said words I hated to hear. “Get out.” Because Betty was my close friend I got out also.

We felt awful walking along the street. No stars either. We were afraid the rain would start and we would be soaked. Other fellows opened their car doors encouraging us to come in from the cold. Of course we would not dare to get into a car with people we didn’t know.

We were not far from my street and had just reached Betty’s house. We were amazed to see the boys parked in Emerson’s car in front of Betty’s house. Emerson jumped out of the car, saying he was ashamed and realized he had done something very wrong and begged Betty to forgive his behavior.

I would have been furious if she didn’t. Both Edward and I were much relieved.

Emerson happily chose a popular restaurant for dinner and he insisted on paying the bill.

We still had time for some enjoyable dancing and as we drove home we saw the sky had changed. No longer was it a stormy and dark night. It was beautiful again as the sparkling stars smiled down on the four romantic young people.

— © Bernice Becker

— Thanks to Dr. Barbara Becker Holstein

In private practice since 1981, Dr. Barbara Becker Holstein, psychologist and originator of The Enchanted Self, has committed to bring the keys of enchantment to the world.

 

 



4.      “A kiss or hug is better than a punch in the eye!”

— © Bob Sax

 


5.      ValueSpeak
A Weekly Column
By
Joseph Walker

LITTLE BATHROOM OF HORRORS

I don't want you to think I'm paranoid or anything, but my razor is out to get me.

Really.

I'm serious about this.

It bit me the other day when I was shaving.  And no, I didn't cut myself.  I may be paranoid, but I'm not . . . you know . . . whacko.  It bit me.  I know the difference.  I tend to cut myself when I'm not paying attention, or trying to shave too quickly.  I make a false move and I nick myself.  I've done that a thousand times, and I know it when I do it.

But this was different.  I was concentrating on my shaving.  I was in sort of a shaving "zone" -- totally focused.  I wasn't trying to move too quickly, and I didn't make any false moves.  But all of a sudden I could feel this nick, and I was bleeding, and the only explanation is that my razor just reached up and bit me.

I'm not making this up.

I looked at it, and its steely, double-edged lips seemed to be turned up slightly at the ends in a deviously sharp, slightly bloody smile.  I spent the rest of the day dabbing at the little slits by the corner of my mouth, trying to explain to everyone who would listen that I hadn't really cut myself shaving; I had been bitten by my razor.

And then I went home to my Little Bathroom of Horrors.

The only thing I can figure is that somehow Gillette sold me a direct lineal descendant of Sweeney Todd's razor.  You remember Sweeney -- "the demon barber of Fleet Street" of song and Broadway musical?  According to the legend, people would come in to get a shave from the guy and end up in a meat pie.

That's what I'm talking about.  This razor is a bad seed.  It got me again when I shaved today.  And now that it has tasted blood, there's no telling what it will do.

I don't mind telling you: I'm afraid.  I'm very afraid.

Of course, it COULD be that the thing I'm really afraid of here is that everyone will know what a klutz I am, so I've invented this "razor bite" story as a way of explaining all these scars on my face.  I don't mean "invented" to imply that I'm lying -- I may have convinced myself that it is true.  But deep down inside -- somewhere below the layers of skin that I seem to be systematically scraping away with my razor -- I know that I'm not being victimized by an inanimate object.  I'm being victimized by me -- or rather, by the same lack of hand-eye coordination that made me an all-field, no-hit Little Leaguer and still causes me to quiver at the mention of the word "Pong."

Accepting responsibility for your own actions can be tough -- especially when doing so makes you look clumsy or inconsiderate or thoughtless or dumb.  It can be particularly daunting for those in the public eye, who risk wide-spread criticism, ridicule and even legal action when they acknowledge personal responsibility for Stuff Gone Wrong.  That's why I admire those who are able to step up and accept the blame for that poorly thrown pass, or that ill-advised executive decision, or that inappropriate public comment.  To say "I'm responsible -- right or wrong" demonstrates great courage, extraordinary integrity and an awful lot of self-confidence.

Not to mention a complete absence of paranoia.

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— © Joseph Walker

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E-mail Joseph at: valuespeak@msn.com 


Look for Joe's book,
"How Can You Mend a Broken Spleen? Home Remedies for an Ailing World." It is available on-line through www.Amazon.com.


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