A Weekly Column
By Joseph Walker
THE ALURE OF “RIGHT
A few years ago I tried an experiment with a group of 10-year-olds I was teaching.
“You have a choice,” I announced as I held up a bowl of M&M’s. “You can either have a handful of M&M’s right now, or you can each have an entire bag of M&M’s tomorrow.”
“Why don’t we try it the other way around?” Brady suggested. “Give us a bag of M&M’s now, or a handful tomorrow!”
The rest of the class loved Brady’s idea. But I didn’t.
“Nope,” I said. “A handful now or the bag tomorrow. That’s the way it’s going to be.”
“How about just a few now
“Sorry,” I said. “No compromise. You have to make a choice.”
“What if some of us want our M&M’s now, and some of us want to wait?” Adam asked.
“Good idea,” I said. “But no. Whatever you’re going to do, you’re going to do it as a group. You guys figure it out. I’m going to get a drink.”
With that I stepped into the hall and wandered down to the drinking fountain, making sure to pause and stretch and meander. I wanted to give them plenty of time to hash this out. We were, after all, talking about chocolate here. If there’s one thing 26 years of marriage has taught me it’s that you have to be very careful about decisions that involve chocolate – even if it’s the kind that melts in your mouth, not in your hands.
When I finally poked my head back into the room, the decision had been made: the bowl of M&M’s was empty, and there were chocolate-induced smiles all around.
it was pretty much a no-brainer,”
So one of
the boys – out of respect for delicate feelings I won’t say who – arm-wrestled
The next day when I came home from work several of the kids from my class were hanging out around my front lawn.
“We were just sort of thinking that . . . you know . . . maybe we should have waited to get a whole bag of M&M’s today,” Brady said. “And we were sort of wondering . . . you know . . . if it is, like, too late to change our minds?”
I smiled. “Yeah, it is,” I said. “Sorry!”
girls ate most of the M&M’s in the bowl,”
“That’s too bad,” I said. “If you had waited not only would you have received more M&M’s today than you got yesterday, but you would have received your own bag and you wouldn’t have had to worry about how to divide them. But you decided not to wait, so you’re pretty much stuck with what you got.”
They didn’t like that answer, but it brought new insight to our Bible class the next Sunday when we talked about how important it is to always stay focused on our ultimate, long-term goals and priorities no matter how alluring and intoxicating the diversions Right Now may be.
You know, the story of Jacob, Laban, Leah, Rachel – and the M&M’s.
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