SFPNN Workshop: Taking Care of Myself 101

introduction to taking care of myself 101

 

beginning of workshop

 

Getting enough sleep

 

Eating a healthy diet that works with the body instead of against it

 

Drinking enough water

 

Taking down time to clear our mind, heart, and energy

 

Taking time to play and enjoy life

 

Engaging in healthy relationships

 

Distancing ourselves from toxic people, places, things and circumstances

 

Thinking healthy positive thoughts

 

Exercising the body in a way that’s nurturing for it

 

Connecting with God or a Higher Power

 

Loving our Self

 

Providing a positive and nurturing home space

 

Providing a positive and nurturing work place

 

Following the promptings of the soul and our dreams

 

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Welcome to the first ever SFPNN Workshop: Taking Care of Myself 101.

The only way we can feel loved, happy, peaceful, fulfilled, and
connected to our Higher Power is to take care of ourselves!

This workshop is designed to help you live a positive life!

Your purpose on this planet, before anything else, is to take care of YOU.

 

Once you begin to take of YOU, you will increase your connection to Divine Guidance.

 

You will have more insight, clarity, and creativity on a daily basis

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You will have more energy to do those things you feel guided to do.

 

You will have more love and compassion to help others.

 

You will have more faith in your own ability and in that of a supportive God and Universe.

 

You will KNOW you are capable because you will actually FEEL capable.

 

The body, mind, emotions and spirit need proper care to work together as one.

 

If we don’t take care of ourselves all the tools God gave us for living a good life can’t work properly. If we’re not caring for ourselves properly, we are not loving ourselves. When we don’t give ourselves the love and care we deserve, we send out the signal to ourselves and everyone around us that we are unworthy! Because our thoughts create our reality and attract similar energy, we will attract unloving, uncaring situations and circumstances. These are simply to mirror our own thoughts!

 


The reality is that we are
ALL deserving and worthy of Love and Self Care!

We simply need to take care of ourselves!

 


The SFPNN Workshop Taking Care of Myself 101
is designed to cover the basic elements of great Self Care:

 

 

 Getting enough sleep

 

 Eating a healthy diet that works with the body instead of against it

 

 Drinking enough water

 

 Taking down time to clear our mind, heart, and energy

 

 Taking time to play and enjoy life

 

 Engaging in healthy relationships

 

 Distancing ourselves from toxic people, places, things and circumstances

 

 Thinking healthy positive thoughts

 

 Exercising the body in a way that’s nurturing for it

 

 Connecting with God or a Higher Power

 

 Loving our Self

 

 Providing a positive and nurturing home space

 

 Providing a positive and nurturing work place

 

 Following the promptings of the soul and our dreams

 

Each category asks a series of questions to help you determine where you are in your level of Self Care for that topic. It then asks you further questions to help you figure out what you can do to improve the situation, increase your Self Care, and work doable solutions into your daily routine.

 

 

Increasing your Self Care increases your energy levels. It increases your vitality. It increases your confidence, courage, and faith.

 

 

Great Self Care helps you feel more positive about yourself and the world you live in.

 

 

Taking great care of your Self is NOT narcissistic. In fact, because you are loving your Self when you provide great Self Care, you are increasing the flow of love in your life which means you are more able to both GIVE and RECEIVE Love.

 

 

When you set a tone of love and caring, you attract loving and caring situations in your life and you are better able to love and care for yourself AND those around you.

 

 

There are a few ways to do the SFPNN Workshop Taking Care of Myself 101. It was created as a Word document, about 22 pages in length with 12 pt Arial font for easy printing and future writing. However, in uploading to the website, the layout may have been affected by its conversion to HTML, as well as different internet browser viewing and printer capabilities.

 

 

• You can try printing it right from the internet (I’d recommend a preview first to make sure it’s in an OK format)

 

 

• Download the file from the website

 

 

• Select all, copy and paste into your computer’s word processor.

 

 

By downloading or doing a copy and paste, you can work with the format and adjust font size, etc., to fit your writing style and print out capabilities. If neither of those options works for you, e-mail me and I can send you a copy of the Word file. (Make sure you can open Word HTML documents if you choose this option.)

 

• You may also click on your category of choice and simply write the questions and answers on a sheet of paper.

 

 

This workshop will take some time and effort but I guarantee you will get some great insights, ideas and goals to work toward. If you get stuck as to how to improve in certain categories, ask family members, friends, coworkers and health care professionals for suggestions. Or e-mail me and I can tell you what’s worked in my life.

 

 

Keep a copy of your workshop and the blank worksheets so you can do check-ins as appropriate. Some of you will finish the workshop in a day and might want to check in with yourself 30 days from now by doing the workshop again, tracking your progress. It might take others a month to complete the workshop depending on your level of commitment to your Self. If that’s the case, it’s probably going to take you longer to implement the changes you come up with and you might need two or three months before you’re ready to do the workshop again and track your progress.

 

 

For those of you who look at the workshop and feel overwhelmed, it’s OK. Just do one category at a time. Pick the area of your life that you feel drawn to. It doesn’t matter which one you choose first. What matters is that you begin to provide yourself with the loving energy of great Self Care! Once you start to improve in one area, begin focusing on the next while maintaining your Self Care changes.

 

 

Folks, everything in this workshop is doable everyday living! These are the questions which led to the changes I’ve implemented in my own life and have found really work! This workshop will help you set your own goals to provide the self care you need and deserve.

 

 

Learning to provide great Self Care WILL change your life! It is the single most positive action you can do for yourself, your dreams, your family, your friends, and your higher power. (I say single most positive action, but it really is comprised of many smaller ones.)

 

 

I personally invite each of you to provide your own Great Self Care and make the best investment in living a positive life you can! It’s called YOU!

 

 

                           SFPNN Workshop: Taking Care of Myself 101  

Getting enough sleep

 

Eating a healthy diet that works with the body instead of against it

 

Drinking enough water

 

Taking down time to clear our mind, heart, and energy

 

Taking time to play and enjoy life

 

Engaging in healthy relationships

 

Distancing ourselves from toxic people, places, things and circumstances

 

Thinking healthy positive thoughts

 

Exercising the body in a way that’s nurturing for it

 

Connecting with God or a Higher Power

 

Loving our Self

 

Providing a positive and nurturing home space

 

Providing a positive and nurturing work place

 

Following the promptings of the soul and our dreams

 

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Getting enough sleep

 

How much sleep do I average per night during the week?_______________________________________

 

How much sleep do I average per night on the weekend?_______________________________________

 

How much sleep do I need to feel my best?__________________________________________________

 

What time frame provides me with the most restful sleep?______________________________________

 

What time do I usually go to bed?__________________________________________________________

 

What time could I go to bed to ensure a better night’s rest?______________________________________

 

Is my sleep peaceful or interrupted?________________________________________________________

 

What kind of dreams am I having?_________________________________________________________

 

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What are they trying to convey?___________________________________________________________

 

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What can I do before bed to help me relax? (Meditate, listen to peaceful music, read something inspirational, do a gentle stretching or yoga

session?)________________________________________________________

 

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What changes do I need to make so I feel more peaceful, energized, healthy and rested?

 

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Tips for a better night’s sleep:

Run an air purifier for 30 – 60 minutes before going to bed.

 

• Use a humidifier or dehumidifier according to your comfort levels and needs.

 

• Practice shutting down your mind before bed.

 

Listen to relaxing music, chakra clearing tones, or guided meditations as you fall asleep.

 

• Do not work, watch the news, TV or movies which depict violence for at least one to two hours before going to bed.

 

• Find the perfect pillow… If nothing else works, try a foam travel pillow.

 

• Use a memory foam mattress pad.

 

• Do gentle stretches or yoga before bed.

 

• Do NOT consume anything with sugar, alcohol, salt, artificial sweeteners, caffeine or high amounts of fat and grease for least 3 – 4 hours before going to sleep.

 

• Try not to eat anything for 2 hours prior to going to bed. If you suffer from Low Blood Sugar, try eating a very small portion of something with a slow burn rate such as a tablespoon or two of peanut butter, yogurt, or cottage cheese.

 

• Drink plenty of water through out the day so your muscles stay hydrated and you don’t get charlie horses, cramps, or general soreness at night.

 

• Pay attention to your dreams and either discuss them or write them down first thing in the morning. Try to interpret your dreams and/or ask yourself, “what message was this dream trying to convey? What was the overall feeling I got from it?” Often similar themes will return to our dreams until we acknowledge what they’re trying to tell us. The book, “The Secret Language of Signs – by Denise Linn is the best dream and sign interpretations book I’ve come across. I highly recommend it for dream interpretation and figuring out other events in your life that make you go “Hmmmm…”

 

 

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Eating a healthy diet that works with my body
instead of against it

What do I eat and drink on an average day?

 

Breakfast_____________________________________________________________________________

 

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Morning Snack 1_______________________________________________________________________

 

Morning Snack 2_______________________________________________________________________

 

Lunch________________________________________________________________________________

 

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Afternoon Snack 1______________________________________________________________________

 

Afternoon Snack 2______________________________________________________________________

 

Dinner _______________________________________________________________________________

 

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After Dinner Snack _____________________________________________________________________

 

Bedtime Snack ________________________________________________________________________

 

 

Where could I use some improvement?_____________________________________________________

 

Paying attention to how I feel both before and after I eat or drink anything, are there any foods that make me feel tired, bloated, lethargic, spacey, hyper, moody, or have an up and down or spiking effect?_____________

 

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What healthier alternatives can I replace these with?___________________________________________

 

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When I go to the grocery store, do I currently use a pre-determined list?___________________________

 

Some ways to help me use a list and make shopping more convenient, economical and healthier include:

 

• Keeping a shopping list notepad and pencil on the refrigerator and writing down (healthy) items as I run out of them.

 

• Using a weekly menu to help me determine what to buy.

 

• Buy more FRESH food and produce, buy LESS convenience, pre-packaged, preservative filled foods.

 

• Pre-planning and taking a lunch to work instead of going out to eat

 

• NOT using coupons for junk-food items

 

• NOT stocking up on unhealthy sale items.

 

• Using fruit for desert to fulfill cravings for sweet things, and noting a wide variety of fruits, vegetables, nuts and grains in my menu and on my shopping list.

 

 

What foods and beverages does my body crave?_____________________________________________

 

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What purpose are these cravings fulfilling – an addiction (such as to caffeine), a nutritional deficiency, dehydration, buffering negative energy or unhealthy moods, balancing chemical imbalances within the body?________

 

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If any of the foods I crave are addictions or to mute my feelings, what I can I do to stop eating and/or drinking them?

 

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Is there a healthier solution or replacement food? (For example: grapefruit and oranges instead of a donut and coffee, whole wheat bread with natural, no sugar added peanut butter, instead of cookies or potato chips)

 

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What would my body prefer for me to eat on an average day?

 

Breakfast_____________________________________________________________________________

 

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Morning Snack 1_______________________________________________________________________

 

Lunch________________________________________________________________________________

 

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Afternoon Snack 1______________________________________________________________________

 

Dinner _______________________________________________________________________________

 

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After Dinner Snack _____________________________________________________________________

 

(After dinner snack should be eaten at least 2 hours before bed.)

 

 

If I were to create a menu listing the main meal for each day of the week, (lunch or dinner) what would it include?

 

Using this example, I can choose healthy options instead of wondering what to eat and grabbing less healthy “convenience” foods. For instance, I might want whole wheat spaghetti and tomato sauce, a salad, and pear slices for one meal, a baked potato with a small amount of butter, plain yogurt (instead of sour cream) cracked black pepper and fresh chives with steamed green beans on the side, and blueberries for dessert as another a meal.

 

Menu Option 1_________________________________________________________________________

 

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Menu Option 2_________________________________________________________________________

 

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Menu Option 3 _________________________________________________________________________

 

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Menu Option 4_________________________________________________________________________

 

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Menu Option 5_________________________________________________________________________

 

There are many, many books on health and diet available on the market. Some are focused on blood type, others go by protein, some by complex carbohydrates, some are for weight loss, others are geared toward high blood pressure or keeping your glucose levels in check. What works for one person does not necessarily work for another! This is why it is SO IMPORTANT to tune into your body and keep track of what you eat and how it makes you feel. Check in with your body as its Infinite Wisdom. Ask your intuition and your Higher Power to guide you. Check out as many different types of resources as you can and see what rings true for you.

 

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Drinking enough water

What do I drink on average day?___________________________________________________________

 

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What do I drink on weekends?____________________________________________________________

 

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How much sugar am I consuming through these drinks? (Take the number of drinks times the amount of sugar per bottle (not per serving if you drink the whole bottle as many labels for cans and bottles show more than one serving per container) and multiply that by the number of days per week. You might be surprised!____________

 

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How many caffeinated drinks per week am I consuming?_______________________________________

 

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How many drinks with artificial sweeteners am I drinking per week?_______________________________

 

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How much alcohol do I drink in an average week – including weekends?___________________________

 

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How do I feel after drinking things with sugar, caffeine, artificial sweeteners and alcohol? ______________

 

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Twenty minutes after?______________________ An hour after?_____________________________

A few hours after__________________________ The next day? _____________________________

 

How can I reduce or completely eliminate sugar, caffeine, artificial sweeteners and alcohol from my diet?

 

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How much water do I drink in an average day? _______________________________________________

 

How much water do I drink in an average week?______________________________________________

 

What can I do to ensure I drink at least 64 oz of water per day?__________________________________

 

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Taking down time to clear my mind, heart, and energy

What is my average day like?_____________________________________________________________

 

5am – 6am____________________________________________________________________________

 

6am – 7am____________________________________________________________________________

 

7am – 8am____________________________________________________________________________

 

8am – 9am____________________________________________________________________________

 

9am – 10am___________________________________________________________________________

 

10am – 11am__________________________________________________________________________

 

11am – 12pm__________________________________________________________________________

 

12pm – 1pm___________________________________________________________________________

 

1pm – 2pm____________________________________________________________________________

 

2pm – 3pm____________________________________________________________________________

 

3pm – 4pm____________________________________________________________________________

 

4pm – 5pm____________________________________________________________________________

 

5pm – 6pm____________________________________________________________________________

 

6pm – 7pm____________________________________________________________________________

 

7pm – 8pm____________________________________________________________________________

 

8pm – 9pm____________________________________________________________________________

 

9pm – 10pm___________________________________________________________________________

 

10pm – 11pm__________________________________________________________________________

 

11pm – 12am__________________________________________________________________________

 

 

 

How much time do I spend on the go, working, getting stuff done, running errands and taking care of others?

 

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How much time do I allot for meals?________________________________________________________

 

How much time do I rest, relax, meditate, pray etc?____________________________________________

 

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What would I like my average day to be like?_________________________________________________

 

5am – 6am____________________________________________________________________________

 

6am – 7am____________________________________________________________________________

 

7am – 8am____________________________________________________________________________

 

8am – 9am____________________________________________________________________________

 

9am – 10am___________________________________________________________________________

 

10am – 11am__________________________________________________________________________

 

11am – 12pm__________________________________________________________________________

 

12pm – 1pm___________________________________________________________________________

 

1pm – 2pm____________________________________________________________________________

 

2pm – 3pm____________________________________________________________________________

 

3pm – 4pm____________________________________________________________________________

 

4pm – 5pm____________________________________________________________________________

 

5pm – 6pm____________________________________________________________________________

 

6pm – 7pm____________________________________________________________________________

 

7pm – 8pm____________________________________________________________________________

 

8pm – 9pm____________________________________________________________________________

 

9pm – 10pm___________________________________________________________________________

 

10pm – 11pm__________________________________________________________________________

 

11pm – 12am__________________________________________________________________________

 

How can I reduce the amount of time I spend working, running errands, and getting stuff done?_________

 

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What can I do to increase the amount of down time I take to rest, relax, meditate, deep breathe, pray, read inspirational material and just soak in

life?___________________________________________________

 

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Taking time to play
and enjoy life

The Artist’s Way by Julia Cameron is a great tool for discovering or recovering one’s creativity and sense of play as well as the blocks to enjoying them.

 

What things do I enjoy doing for entertainment and play time?____________________________________

 

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How often do I allow myself to play or partake in these things?___________________________________

 

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How can I work them into my schedule and guarantee my “inner child” a play date?__________________

 

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When I will begin doing these things?_______________________________________________________

 

(Write it on the calendar and make play time sacred!)

 

Do I like to play alone or with others?_______________________________________________________

 

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What can I do to incorporate others into my play time? Have a game night? Create a reading Circle? Plan a picnic, trip to the beach or ski outing, etc?_________________________________________________________

 

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What can I do to detoxify and de-stress before my playtime to ensure I enjoy it more?

 

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How can I incorporate this “detox” time into my daily schedule?__________________________________

 

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Engaging in healthy relationships

 

Positive Energy – by Dr. Judith Orloff, M.D. is an EXCELLENT resource for learning how to identify “energy vampires” and other toxic things in daily life as well as providing helpful anecdotes for recharging one’s batteries and creating much needed positive energy.

 

Thinking of the people I interact with in my life, do I feel energized or drained after dealing with them? Do I feel more positive and optimistic or pessimistic and less hopeful? Do I feel better about my Self or worse? Are they healthy or unhealthy for me?

 

 

At Home:

 

Name of Person 1__________________________________________________________________________________

 

Circle: Energized / Drained, Positive / Negative , Better / Worse about Self, Healthy or Unhealthy

 

Person 2 _________________________________________________________________________________________

 

Circle: Energized / Drained, Positive / Negative , Better / Worse about Self, Healthy or Unhealthy

 

Person 3__________________________________________________________________________________________

 

Circle: Energized / Drained, Positive / Negative , Better / Worse about Self, Healthy or Unhealthy

 

Person 4__________________________________________________________________________________________

 

Circle: Energized / Drained, Positive / Negative , Better / Worse about Self, Healthy or Unhealthy

 

Person 5__________________________________________________________________________________________

 

Circle: Energized / Drained, Positive / Negative , Better / Worse about Self, Healthy or Unhealthy

 

Person 6__________________________________________________________________________________________

 

Circle: Energized / Drained, Positive / Negative , Better / Worse about Self, Healthy or Unhealthy

 


Person 7__________________________________________________________________________________________

 

Circle: Energized / Drained, Positive / Negative , Better / Worse about Self, Healthy or Unhealthy

 


Person 8__________________________________________________________________________________________

 

Circle: Energized / Drained, Positive / Negative , Better / Worse about Self, Healthy or Unhealthy

 

Person 9__________________________________________________________________________________________

 

Circle: Energized / Drained, Positive / Negative , Better / Worse about Self, Healthy or Unhealthy

 


Person 10_________________________________________________________________________________________

 

Circle: Energized / Drained, Positive / Negative , Better / Worse about Self, Healthy or Unhealthy

 

Who do I interact with At Work and/or School?

 

Do I feel energized or drained after dealing with them? Do I feel more positive and optimistic or pessimistic and less hopeful? Do I feel better about my Self or worse? Are they healthy or unhealthy for me?

 

Name of Person 1__________________________________________________________________________________

 

Circle: Energized / Drained, Positive / Negative , Better / Worse about Self, Healthy or Unhealthy

 

Person 2 _________________________________________________________________________________________

 

Circle: Energized / Drained, Positive / Negative , Better / Worse about Self, Healthy or Unhealthy

 

Person 3__________________________________________________________________________________________

 

Circle: Energized / Drained, Positive / Negative , Better / Worse about Self, Healthy or Unhealthy

 

Person 4__________________________________________________________________________________________

 

Circle: Energized / Drained, Positive / Negative , Better / Worse about Self, Healthy or Unhealthy

 

Person 5__________________________________________________________________________________________

 

Circle: Energized / Drained, Positive / Negative , Better / Worse about Self, Healthy or Unhealthy

 

Person 6__________________________________________________________________________________________

 

Circle: Energized / Drained, Positive / Negative , Better / Worse about Self, Healthy or Unhealthy

 


Person 7__________________________________________________________________________________________

 

Circle: Energized / Drained, Positive / Negative , Better / Worse about Self, Healthy or Unhealthy

 


Person 8__________________________________________________________________________________________

 

Circle: Energized / Drained, Positive / Negative , Better / Worse about Self, Healthy or Unhealthy

 

Person 9__________________________________________________________________________________________

 

Circle: Energized / Drained, Positive / Negative , Better / Worse about Self, Healthy or Unhealthy

 


Person 10_________________________________________________________________________________________

 

Circle: Energized / Drained, Positive / Negative , Better / Worse about Self, Healthy or Unhealthy

 

 

Who else do I interact with in my life? Friends? Family? Doing business or running errands, etc?

 

Do I feel energized or drained after dealing with them? Do I feel more positive and optimistic or pessimistic and less hopeful? Do I feel better about my Self or worse? Are they healthy or unhealthy for me?

 

Name of Person 1__________________________________________________________________________________

 

Circle: Energized / Drained, Positive / Negative , Better / Worse about Self, Healthy or Unhealthy

 

Person 2 _________________________________________________________________________________________

 

Circle: Energized / Drained, Positive / Negative , Better / Worse about Self, Healthy or Unhealthy

 

Person 3__________________________________________________________________________________________

 

Circle: Energized / Drained, Positive / Negative , Better / Worse about Self, Healthy or Unhealthy

 

Person 4__________________________________________________________________________________________

 

Circle: Energized / Drained, Positive / Negative , Better / Worse about Self, Healthy or Unhealthy

 

Person 5__________________________________________________________________________________________

 

Circle: Energized / Drained, Positive / Negative , Better / Worse about Self, Healthy or Unhealthy

 

 

 

Which people do I feel more energized, positive and hopeful around?______________________________

 

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Who do I feel best about myself with?_______________________________________________________

 

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How can I spend more time with these people?_______________________________________________

 

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Distancing myself from toxic people,
places, things
and circumstances

Positive Energy – by Dr. Judith Orloff, M.D. is an EXCELLENT resource for learning how to identify “energy vampires” and other toxic things in daily life as well as providing helpful anecdotes for recharging one’s batteries and creating much needed positive energy.

 

If I feel drained, negative, or worse about myself after being with or talking to someone, this person is unhealthy. What can I do to minimize their impact on me? ___________________________________________________

 

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Looking at the above list of people I interact with, who drains me or brings me down that I should I spend less time with?_________________________________________________________________________________

 

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Is there anyone I need to cut out of my life all together?_________________________________________

 

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Do I frequent any places which have a damaging or negative impact on me?________________________

 

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Where else could I go that would have a more positive impact?__________________________________

 

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Is there any particular thing I interact with or do that has a negative impact?_________________________

 

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What would be a more positive alternative?__________________________________________________

 

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Are there any detrimental circumstances in my current life situation which need to change?____________

 

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What can I do to change them?___________________________________________________________

 

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Thinking healthy positive thoughts

If I pay attention to my thoughts, what kind of things will I think/hear…

 

When I wake up in the morning?___________________________________________________________

 

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When I’m getting dressed and ready for work?________________________________________________

 

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When I’m driving to work or another destination?______________________________________________

 

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When I’m working, getting stuff done, or running errands?_______________________________________

 

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When I interact with other people?_________________________________________________________

 

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When it’s meal time?____________________________________________________________________

 

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When I look in the mirror?________________________________________________________________

 

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When I come home from work?___________________________________________________________

 

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When I have time to spend with myself?_____________________________________________________

 

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When I’m with my significant other?________________________________________________________

 

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When I have down time or play time?_______________________________________________________

 

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When I think about my dreams or goals?____________________________________________________

 

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When I look at my finances?______________________________________________________________

 

 

If any of these thoughts are negative, what positive affirmations can I replace them with?

 

When I wake up in the morning?___________________________________________________________

 

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When I’m getting dressed and ready for work?________________________________________________

 

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When I’m driving to work or another destination?______________________________________________

 

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When I’m working, getting stuff done, or running errands?_______________________________________

 

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When I interact with other people?_________________________________________________________

 

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When it’s meal time?____________________________________________________________________

 

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When I look in the mirror?________________________________________________________________

 

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When I come home from work?___________________________________________________________

 

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When I have time to spend with myself?_____________________________________________________

 

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When I’m with my significant other?________________________________________________________

 

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When I have down time or play time?_______________________________________________________

 

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When I think about my dreams or goals?____________________________________________________

 

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When I look at my finances?______________________________________________________________

 

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Once you tune into your thoughts and identify the areas that are NOT positive, it’s important to reprogram yourself to a better way of thinking. One of the best ways to do this is with positive affirmations. For each of the areas above where you caught yourself thinking something negative, judgmental or critical, go back and write a positive affirmation! Work with these affirmations daily… writing them down, speaking them aloud (especially looking in a mirror) and record them and play them back to yourself as you’re falling asleep at night or any time during the day.

 

The book “You CAN Heal Your Life” by Louise L. Hay is a wonderful way to begin to change one’s perspective to something more positive. The Artist’s Way by Julia Cameron is another great resource that will help you identify critical thinking and give you resources for working through your blocks.

 

 

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Exercising My Body in a Nurturing Way

How much and what kind of physical activity do I get during an average work day?___________________

 

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How do I feel after this?__________________________________________________________________

 

How much and what kind of physical activity do I get after I’m done working?________________________

 

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How do I feel after this?__________________________________________________________________

 

How much and what kind of physical activity do I get on an average weekend?______________________

 

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How do I feel after this?__________________________________________________________________

 

What kind of exercise do I enjoy doing?_____________________________________________________

 

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How often do I do it?____________________________________________________________________

 

If not daily, why not?_____________________________________________________________________

 

Is there any way I can incorporate more of it into my routine?____________________________________

 

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What don’t I like about exercising?_________________________________________________________

 

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IS there a type of exercise or physical activity which does NOT incorporate those things I dislike?_______

 

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What have I been curious about or wanted to try that I haven’t yet?________________________________

 

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How can I start doing it?_________________________________________________________________

 

When will I begin?______________________________________________________________________

 

We all have different body types. It’s important to work WITH your body and not against it. Some of us need LOTS of really challenging physical activity. While some of us need quiet gentle stretches. I personally LOVE Pilates and Yoga and have found I feel wonderful after these work outs. Not only do I feel great, but I can do them in the comfort of my home using just an exercise mat and a DVD. Click here for a list of Yoga and Pilates resources.

 

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Connecting with God / my Higher Power

How do I feel about God?_________________________________________________________________

 

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Is it positive or negative?_________________________________________________________________

 

What can I do to shift my perception to a more positive one if needed?____________________________

 

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When do I feel the most disconnected from God or my Higher Power?____________________________

 

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How can I reduce or eliminate these situations from my life?_____________________________________

 

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When do I feel most connected with God or my Higher Power?__________________________________

 

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What can I do to incorporate more of this into my life?__________________________________________

 

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What can I do on a daily or even an hourly basis to feel more connected to God?____________________

 

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What books would I like to read to feel more connected and expand or reinforce my spiritual beliefs?____

 

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Loving My Self

Do I love my Self?______________________________________________________________________

 

Why do I believe this?___________________________________________________________________

 

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Do I like my Self?_______________________________________________________________________

 

Why do I believe this?___________________________________________________________________

 

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What beliefs do I need to work with in order to love my Self truthfully and whole heartedly?_____________

 

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What affirmations can I write and repeat daily to be more loving toward my Self and allow my Self to receive this love I am offering?__________________________________________________________________________

 

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If I did love and like my Self whole heartedly, what would (does) it feel like?_________________________

 

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What changes can I make to experience loving and accepting myself whole heartedly?_______________

 

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Do I believe God loves and accepts me whole heartedly? _______________________________________

 

What can I do to make sure I am accepting God’s unconditional love in my life and know I am worthy to receive God’s love as well as my own?____________________________________________________________

 

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Providing a positive and nurturing home space

Does my home feel positive, nurturing, peaceful, inspiring and energizing?_________________________

 

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If no on any of those, why not?____________________________________________________________

 

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What changes do I need to make in order for my home to feel nurturing, peaceful, inspiring and energizing?

 

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Do I have a space that feels like it is all mine?________________________________________________

 

If not, where could I make my own space?___________________________________________________

 

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Do I have a space that feels sacred or spiritual where I can meditate, pray and center myself?_________

 

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If not, where can I create such a space?____________________________________________________

 

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What would this space require to feel sacred or spiritual?_______________________________________

 

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Does my home have good energy flow or is it cluttered?________________________________________

 

What can I do to remove clutter and give my home better energy flow?____________________________

 

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Do I have space to do the hobbies I enjoy such as playing board games or cards, making puzzles, cooking, painting, reading, working on crafts, building models, etc.?_____________________________________________

 

Where could I create such a space if needed?________________________________________________

 

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Are the things I enjoy playing with or need on a daily basis (such craft or hobby materials, cooking utensils, or my wardrobe) easy to access or inconveniently located?__________________________________________

 

What can I do to make them easier to utilize?________________________________________________

 

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Does my home have good lighting for my various activities such as cooking, reading, taking care of finances, working on hobbies or crafts, or meditating?________________________________________________________

 

What changes could I make to improve the lighting?___________________________________________

 

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Is my home peaceful or at least filled with positive noise levels or does it blare at me with the TV, video games, multiple radios or phones, or other annoyances which drain my energy and contribute to headaches or tension?

 

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What can I do to reduce the noise levels and create a more energizing sound environment?

 

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Is the air in my home healthy to breathe and refreshing?________________________________________

 

Do I need to purchase or run air purifiers (with HEPA filters) or humidifiers / dehumidifiers?____________

 

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Do I look forward to coming home or dread it?________________________________________________

 

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If I dread it, what changes need to happen for my home to feel more inviting?_______________________

 

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Providing myself with a positive and nurturing job

Am I energized or drained by work?_________________________________________________________

 

Is it a good drain (tired but fulfilled) or a bad drain (stressed, exhausted, frustrated)?__________________

 

If I am drained, is it as a result of the work I do, the physical environment, the people I work with or for, or because I’m not taking care ofmyself?_____________________________________________________________

 

What can I do to alter the circumstances or atmosphere of my current job to make it more nurturing and lessdraining?_____________________________________________________________________________________

 

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If I can’t change anything about my current position and am unhappy there, what can I do to find a better working environment?__________________________________________________________________________

 

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What is it I really want from my work?_______________________________________________________

 

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What am I willing to give to my work?_______________________________________________________

 

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If I wasn’t dependent on the income from my work, what type of work would I really want to do?_________

 

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How can I incorporate that into my daily circumstances?________________________________________

 

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If I am happy with my current job, are there things I can do to make it even more enjoyable such as going outside at lunch, bringing healthy snacks or putting up positive quotes or pictures around my desk?______________

 

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Following the Promptings of My Soul, Dreams & Goals

What are my Life’s dreams and goals?_____________________________________________________

 

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How can I find out?_____________________________________________________________________

 

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Is my current job in alignment with my soul as well as my life’s dreams and goals?___________________

 

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If not, is there any way I can bring aspects of my dreams and goals into my current position and have it in alignment with my soul’s truest desires?_____________________________________________________________

 

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Do I have clear communication and connection to my soul?_____________________________________

 

Am I able to distinguish the wants and needs of my soul from the wants and needs of my ego, doubts and fears?_____________________________________________________________________________________

 

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How can I connect more clearly to my soul?_________________________________________________

 

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What am I currently doing to fulfill my life’s dreams or goals?____________________________________

 

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What can I do to make that dream or goal come true that I’m currently not doing?____________________

 

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How can I incorporate more of my life’s dreams and goals into my daily routine?_____________________

 

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How will I know I’ve succeeded?___________________________________________________________

 

What will I do when I accomplish my dream?_________________________________________________

 

 

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